Get The Life You Deserve.

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist + Founder of Mindfully Minding Me Therapy & Wellness

My passion is helping people create thriving relationships. I offer both couples counseling and individual therapy for those who want to break family cycles so that they can step into a more peaceful way of doing life. We can unpack things like being BIPOC , being in an interracial partnership, or being neurodiverse as all these factors and more can make it hard to show up calm, secure, and confident in our relationships.

I work with people all over San Diego, from Torry Pines down to Mission Valley. And really all over California since I practice 100% online therapy. That means I can see people from Los Angeles to Fresno to San Jose, and San Francisco. And all while my clients get the convenience and comfort of having therapy right in their own living room.

Check out my about page to see if we are the right fit, explore my specialties page to see if I can help you break generational patterns and step into a more peaceful life. Ready to set up a free consultation?

Hey there, I’m Elisa Blair!

I can help you with:

  • Relationship & Couples Therapy

    Tired of the constant arguing, the revisiting of issues without really solving the problem, and that feeling of loneliness despite being in the same room? Let’s get you back to feeling connected and on the same page again.

  • Young girl dealing with family problems.

    Trauma Therapy & Inner Child Work

    I help people heal inner child wounds and explore the impacts of childhood trauma and intergenerational trauma. Trauma can impact a person well into adulthood, long after the threat is gone.

  • BIPOC, First, & Second Gen Therapy

    As a BIPOC and daughter of an immigrant myself in a marriage with a person of a different culture, I know from lived experience just how important addressing cultural issues can be in order to make lasting changes in our lives.

  • EMDR Therapy

    Originally developed for PTSD but now used for so much more! Heal trauma, mindblocks, and negative thoughts where talk alone was not enough.

  • PMADS & New Parents

    Therapy for infertility, miscarriages, post partum depression and anxiety, traumatic birth, new parents, perfectionism, identity issues, and adjusting back to career.

  • Anxiety and Perfectionsim

    Is perfectionism and anxiety keeping you from living your dreams? Have you been wanting to do something but find yourself putting it off and then realize months have passed? Maybe years? You are not alone. and I can help!

  • Depressed and anxious woman.

    Depression and Grief

    Are you struggling with getting out of bed and doing the things you use to love? Are you feeling empty despite “having it all?” As a trauma-informed therapist practicing online in California I help people heal from depression.

  • Boundaries Work

    Another work project you don’t have time for? Family BBQs and get together every weekend? Are friends wanting to go out for drinks every Friday night? When we say yes to everything we end up saying no to other things. I can help you with boundaries!

Are you ready to have the life you deserve?

Give me a call at (805) 255-3305 or click the button below to set up a a FREE consultation.